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"I feel like probably when you try to think about something happy, or a good time in your life, because things definitely get a bit tougher when you get older. So I think when you think of a good memory and try to feel good about old memories."
-Kai Huang '25
“I feel like probably when you try to think about something happy, or a good time in your life, because things definitely get a bit tougher when you get older. So I think when you think of a good memory and try to feel good about old memories.” -Kai Huang ’25
Gabriella Marmet
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Nostalgia

Definition of Sentimentality

What is nostalgia? Why do we have it? Defined by Oxford Languages, nostalgia is “a sentimental longing or wistful affection for the past, typically for a period or place with happy personal associations.” This may be the dictionary definition, but what does nostalgia actually look like? Nostalgia often occurs when a person relates something back to a bittersweet moment from their past; this can include objects, places, sounds, smells, or even feelings. Studies have shown that nostalgia can have numerous positive impacts on a person’s mental health and overall well-being. It’s often evoked during times of grieving, especially after the loss of a loved one. Nostalgia can be a healthy way to process negative emotions regarding losses by providing a sense of familiarity.

Many people seek out opportunities for nostalgia without even realizing it. Going back to and visiting places or participating in activities one did as a child are prime examples of things someone may subconsciously do. This is because these activities often trigger fond memories associated with happiness and remembrance. For example, the smell and taste of baking and eating certain foods during childhood can allow families to reminisce on their fun moments.

Greg Jones ‘27 recalls a memory he often gets nostalgic about, stating, “when I was little we used to go to the aquarium all the time and there’s this one little spot cut out of the wall and had a little glass viewing of the aquarium. I would always go and sit there for as long as I could.” He describes what brings up these nostalgic feelings and brings him back to those days spent observing the aquarium. “Anytime I see fish,” Jones says.

Another common way people experience nostalgia is through music. Listening to songs played frequently at different times of one’s life can stimulate emotions and feelings associated with them. While nostalgia is an overall happy feeling, it can also contain hints of sadness. Looking back at memories can be upsetting as letting things go can be difficult. Nostalgia allows one to feel, which in doing so allows them to fully move on. Even little things that evoke nostalgia are helpful during times of major life change, which give people that comforting sense of familiarity. Overall, nostalgia is a powerful, complex emotion actively felt throughout a person’s lifetime.

Should We Love or Leave the Past?

As time passes in one’s life, the pervasive presence of nostalgia grows stronger when the roots of beloved memories begin to fade. There is an innate, human yearning to return to the simpler joys of youth; a yearning that evokes both fondness and melancholia. The older we get, the more we desire our youth and idealize the memories fortifying the past—an anecdote illuminated by the focus of this year’s senior speeches. For the Class of 2025, nostalgia has become an integral part of the wisdom that the senior class intends to impart to the student body, largely evidenced by the abundance of speeches revolving around the feeling. Thus far, speeches have consisted of benefits regarding reflection, such as returning to youthful glee and freedoms; however, excessive harping on nostalgia fosters the potential for obsessive desires from years previous. Is, then, nostalgia invasive or inspiring?

Unsurprisingly, nostalgia can be both a productive tool to improve one’s outlook on life and hold the potential to detract from present reality and toward childhood. Kamiyah Walton ‘26 states that nostalgia serves her in differing ways, firstly expressing: “I would say it motivates me to enjoy good moments in life”; however, Walton also states that nostalgia in excess can be harmful, “When it makes me sad [it’s] when I reminisce too much on my childhood.” For Walton, nostalgia can inspire her to use nostalgia as a guide for her current actions and interpretation of the world surrounding her, yet over-abundant nostalgia can inhibit the momentum of the now, turning the mood sour.

Rhea Balachandran ‘26 corroborates Walton’s simultaneous feeling towards nostalgia, “It helps me to connect with other people [but] when I feel like I want to be a kid again, I’m reminded I never will be.” Balachandran’s insightful statement is anything but incorrect: people stuck in the past are constantly reminded that an aged reality no longer exists externally; only within a jaded mind can recollections and reflections of the past be found. These memories will be inherently tainted with newfound experiences; old remembrances no longer feel new.  And yet, despite the potential for painful feelings of a lost childhood, Huang embraces reminiscence completely, going as far to say that the transformative nature of nostalgia does not feel inhibiting, “when I think about my childhood memories, it takes me to a completely different place, back in Wisconsin. I had a lot of fun in Wisconsin… so I wouldn’t say I’ve had negative experiences with it.” Huang utilizes these experiences to elicit thoughts of “good time[s] in your life because things definitely get a bit tougher when you get older.” Huang feels as if nostalgia has always felt reliable and comforting, even whisking him to Wisconsin. Huang’s past experiences continually inspire him—whether appreciating adaptation to moving at a young age or simply reminiscing about past experiences, Huang finds nostalgia to be bountiful in totality.

Nostalgia (even in excess) serves to become a guiding force that aids the pathway of the future. Although one can become enveloped in a lost childhood, a moderate appreciation of our childhood can illustrate what we have loved since our earliest memories. Nostalgia has the potential to consult with our old selves, to ask if our actions feel true to the purest versions of ourselves.

Trip Down Memory Lane
Trip Down Memory Lane

That familiar, sentimental feeling of nostalgia in the back of one’s mind is something we can all strongly relate to. Whether celebrating traditions or gathering with family and friends, there’s nothing quite like the feeling of happiness with a hint of sadness, recalling fond moments of the past. Presented below are members of the Blake community, reflecting on their past moments of nostalgia and how it makes them feel.

Maggie Bowman, Grade 12 Dean and Head Cross Country Coach, feels most nostalgic around running and racing because she has so many different memories of the sport with different groups at different periods in her life. Bowman appreciates her feelings of nostalgia, describing them as “almost always positive” as the emotions are not “associated with negative views or experiences” but rather brings her “back to a time that was fun or impactful.”

Ainsley Pflaum ‘25 has the most nostalgia when listening to music from different time periods because it “reminds me of different time periods in my life when I was younger” and gives her insight into the ways she has changed throughout numerous years.

Ella Sandell ‘28 enjoys the positive feeling of “remember[ing] past moments in time” and agrees that music plays a role in that. She personally enjoys Rip Tide by Vance Joy as it “has a really nostalgic vibe to it and always makes me feel really happy.”

For Rihaan Vora ‘28, looking through his camera roll makes him “feel happy to have been able to experience these moments.” Wild Kratts is a show he often feels nostalgia towards when reflecting back on his childhood.

Alyssa's Advice on Finding Nostalgia
Alyssa’s Advice on Finding Nostalgia

Watch old kids’ shows and movies:
Of course, I had to put this option first; it was my senior speech topic! But, old shows and movies are an excellent way to feel nostalgic. I’m even watching “Phineas and Ferb” as I’m writing this!

 

Go to the playground:
The first time I really played again was with my Nordic team, playing games like Sandman. It reminded me of the years when I would go to the playground almost every day to go on the slides and monkey bars.

 

Read old picture books:
Every once in a while, I’ll read a couple of my childhood picture books that my parents used to read me before bed. It always brings up good memories and reminds me how comforting each story is.

 

Look at old pictures and videos:
This might be obvious, but it’s one of the best ways to feel nostalgic! After being adopted, for the first couple of years of my life, my mom would film my day-to-day activities, and a couple of times a year, I rewatched them with my sister.

Listen to stories:
My family has staple stories of my childhood that I only know because of how many times I’ve heard them. It’s always nice to hear, even if the stories are about a time you don’t remember.

 

Play some video games:
Recently, I’ve gotten into Papa’s Freezeria again, which reminded me how much fun I had playing the game. It’s a great way to feel nostalgic.


Reconnect:
Over the past year, I’ve reconnected with some of my friends from when I was a kid, bringing back many memories. Reconnecting doesn’t have to mean hanging out with them a lot or becoming best friends again, but just reconnecting on social media is a great way to be in contact again.

 

Listen to music:
When I listened to “Can You Canoe?” by The Okee Dokee Brothers for the first time in years, I still remembered all of the words, as the song had been engraved in my mind. Songs are a really good way of feeling nostalgic since I know I and many others associate songs with moments in their lives.

 

Hang out with your parents:
As people grow up, they tend to spend more time with friends and less with their parents, and while that’s understandable, try to spend some time with your parents! Doing daily activities with my parents, such as going to the grocery store, reminds me of a time when I wanted to go everywhere with them.

 

Eat some good food:
According to my parents, the first time I tried an apple, I absolutely loved it and ate the whole thing except for the stem (yes, including the pit). Ever since apples have been one of my favorite foods.

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